sense of accomplishment : got twins

"mcm mane bole dpt twins? family ade keturunan kembar ke?"

"best x dpt anak kembar? senang jage x?"

"mcm mane bezakan diorg?"

"ade pape tips ke nk dpt twins? share lah.."

soklan2 kat atas merupakan soklan yg kerap ditanye pade She.. so I came up with this entry in order to respond to that queries.. plus dah janji kn nk cite in details psl angan2 She nk dpt baby kembar sejak zaman skola lagi.. refer to this prequel --> sense of accomplishment

honestly, twin pregnancy is the last thing that I believed to be happens in my life.. really impossible.. sbb biasanye kn sumtin yg kite betul2 nak, agk mustahil utk dikecapi.. <amek ko ayat novel kua>

dari zaman She kekecik lagi She sgt tringin nk ade kembar.. bkn anak tau, tapi kembar sendiri.. which means tringin nk ade adik bradik kembar, yg totally sama physically dgn She.. She suka sgt tgk adik bradik kembar.. slalu jeles.. mase tadika, ade spasang kembar girl satu tadika dgn She.. sesame rambut panjang, style tocang rambut pon same.. siyes envy ngan diorg.. mcm stalker dah She dok tenung je diorg berdua tu.. rase jaki nape She xde kembar jgk.. mase tu tadika tau.. kecik2 lagi dah pandai nk mempertikaikan ketentuan takdir.. ish3 astaghfirullah.. T_T

mase She darjah 6, She dpt tau yg Mak Siti, pengasuh adik She (Iyul mase tu umur 3 tahun) ade anak kembar, both lelaki & sebaya She.. diorg duduk ngan nenek diorg kat kampung, kat Batu Pahat klu x silap.. diorg x duduk dgn Mak (She panggil Mak Siti tu Mak).. mase cuti skola penggal pertama, diorg dtg JB balik uma Mak.. then Mak Siti pon bwk la diorg pegi uma She, so kitorg pon berkenalan lah.. Adik Abang panggilan diorg.. kitorg berkwn bila cuti skola je, sbb time cuti je diorg balik uma Mak.. lelame kwn, tanpa kusedar cinta pon bertaut antara kitorg.. cinta tiga segi wok! woah kemain baru skola rendah dah cinta bersegi2 ye.. muahaha! dua2 confess feeling kat She.. sampai bergaduh2.. "dia aku punya.." "ahh, aku punya!" haha! kelakar bila ingt2 balik.. pastu sakitnye tuh disini hati bila mengenangkan ayat Mak Siti mase tu; "tu lah.. klu Ekin ade kembar boleh Mak jodohkan dgn Adik Abang.." T_T

my case was identical twins, which is 1 egg, 1 sperm & same placenta

bila dah menginjak ke zaman remaje, dah belajar biologi psl hakikat proses pembiakan, genetik kromosom sume bagai, timbul lah harapan baru: nk baby kembar bila beranak nanti.. dah diri sendiri x ditakdirkan ade kembar, so atleast tringin lah nk jadi ibu kpd baby kembar.. keinginan She nie She canang kat sume kenkwn She, mostly yg agk rapat dgn She.. dari zaman high school, diploma sampai lah ke degree, yg jadi kwn rapat She sume tahu betapa She berazam nk anak kembar bila da kawen nnt..

She punye optimis nk baby kembar sampaikan mase kapel ngan Riky pon She pakse dia bagi She anak kembar.. ayat She mase tu, "Iky WAJIB bagi She baby kembar tau kawen nnt.. klu x dpt bagi, She merajuk.." haha! terserlah ketidakmatangan disitu.. tapi tu sebnanye gurau2 je.. mcm angan2 Mat Jenin.. sbb She sendiri sedar susah nk dpt, since keturunan belah She lgsung xde yg kembar.. at first Riky sendiri pon xtau yg arwah atok dia ade kembar.. dia baru tahu lps mama dia reveal yg atok dia ade kembar tapi x seiras.. tu pon only after doc sahkan yg She preggy kembar, baru mama bagitau.. klu x, smpai kesudah agknye Riky xtau yg atok dia ade kembar.. hoho.. itu je la salah silah keturunan yg menyumbang possibilities for having twins.. mmg jaoh.. in fact, mcm x byk pon kebarangkalian utk kitorg berjaye dpt baby kembar.. tapi klu dah namenye rezeki kn.. so, dgn ini, accomplished lah keinginan She nk dpt anak kembar.. yeay!

mengandung & menjaga baby kembar byk cabaran & dugaan.. She xtau beza pembawakan antare preggy kembar vs preggy single.. as for me, based on my experiences, pembawakan mase preggykan baby kembar mmg agk teruk.. She struggle spnjg nk tggu perut membesar, apatah lagi nk tggu ari bersalin.. segale pembawakan time preggy dulu dah pon She up in the previous entries so no need to be mentioned here dah.. dari segi penjagaan pulak, She x sure beza nk jage antare kembar satu uri & dua uri.. org kate, kembar satu uri nie leceh sikit nk jage.. segale yg dirasai oleh salah sorg, yg another one kompem akan rase jgk.. pada She, that saying is true.. mmg both Airin & Airis ade connection cenggitu.. very strong, cukup utk mengkelamkabutkan kehidupan ibu diorg.. pagi time mandi, nk kena readykan air suam dua kali, plus nk kena ngadap both menangis tiapkali kena air.. mcm aba diorg takot air.. kiki! klu mlm pulak xde dah nikmat tido yg nyenyak utk She.. diorg tu bkn stakat nyusu je, sakit pon berganti2.. even klu sorg sedu, sorg lagi pon ikot sedu jgk lps tu.. juz imagine klu merengek meragam.. T_T

18 days (March 7)

63 days (April 21)

tanda arrow tu adalah parut kesan forceps kat dahi belah kiri Airis.. itu je lah indicator yg membezakan antare dia & Airin.. kat badan diorg berdua lgsong xde tahi lalat or birthmark at all.. puas kitorg belek kulit diorg carik ade x tande yg bole bezakan diorg berdua, mmg xde.. klu kesan parut forceps Airis tu xde, agk susah nk bezakan diorg.. tu pon dah nk samar2 dah parut Airis tu.. klu dah ilang nnt might be pening sikit She nk distinguish they both.. even time ade parut tu pon kekadg She boleh tersilap jgk.. timang2 Airin tp sebut Airis.. T_T sampaikan maklong suggest buat tanda sikit mcm tahi lalat kat tepi bibir salah sorg, tanda yg permanent katenye.. permanent cmne je tah.. tatoo ke ape? huhu.. She ckp no need.. sbb She yakin boleh kenal mane satu Airin & mane satu Airis.. figure & shape muka diorg ade sikit beza so inshaAllah bole je elak dari tersilap.. xkn la sampai ke sudah anak sendiri pon fail nk bezakan ye dok.. hoho..

utk tips dptkn baby kembar, siyesly She xde amalkan pape lgsong.. it is really unexpected.. first dpt tau preggy twins, both She & Riky termenung.. mcm tergamam sbb x sangke lgsong Riky betul2 merealisasikan keinginan She nk dpt baby twins.. terase mcm bulan jatuh ke riba mase tu.. antare percaye dgn x.. klu betul She ade tips, i swear i'll share it here.. but sorry, mmg xde.. juz nk share yg spnjg 3 ari 2 mlm berhoneymoon lps kawen dulu, She & Riky mmg pakai baju yg same.. itu je lah, tapi mcm xde kena mengena je kan relation baju mase honeymoon dgn twin pregnancy.. haha.. but siyesly mmg kitorg baru2 kawen dulu kerap wearing the same outfit.. klu korg nk try, dipersilakan.. mane tau ade rezeki kn.. :)

hipotesis : same outfit for newly married couple leading to the chance of having twins.. woah bole buat research wok! :p

so far She dah pon menjawab sume soklan2 yg kat atas tu.. best x dpt baby kembar? for sure la BEST! its a lil bit tiring but an awesome journey for me.. really enjoy the moment spnjg menjage diorg.. arap diorg membesar dgn sihat.. to Airin & Airis, dah besa esok klu bace entry nie, lps tu sila lari lelaju kat ibu & bagi hugkiss 100 kali okies.. hehe.. :*